Okay, here's Part 1
Now, I already mentioned that I grew up considering love a reckless thing.... etc etc, read the first post for everything..
I was left off at the part where I mentioned that I was jealous, now I totally take that back. I have a heartache, I got the chance to experience that kind of feeling and trying-with difficulty- to get rid of them.
I truly don't understand love feelings, how they can wreck you and make you feel like shit sometimes, or give you an illusion of pleasure and happiness at other time. Love can leave the one entangled in world of aspiring dreams away from the boarders of reality, because reality can make that impossible.
The Chemistry of Falling in Love is simple, you need 2 people who have in common feelings about the other, and friendship can be a great catalyst at sometimes, and let the reaction happen according to they way these people feel and their compatibility and stuff, and
even with a high chance of them falling in love, therefore it cannot be explained.
This doesn't really alter the readiness of these love birds to do something crazily nuts in the name of love! So, what is the secret? Why? How? Where? When?
And the question remains unanswered: WHY DO PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE?
(note: when i answer that myself, i'll let you folks know)